I'm Home



I had a very uneventful trip home. It was a very full flight, but the seat beside me was empty. It made such a huge difference to be able utilize that space a bit! The flight was 13 hours long, but it seemed to go by quickly thanks to a couple of good books, a movie, and a little nap.

In the Beijing airport



The family was there waiting for me when I arrived. Douglas and Freeland met me inside and I was glad to hand my luggage over to them as soon as I saw them! We headed out and were waiting for Keith and the three youngest to pull up when I was suddenly almost bowled over by Annika. They had pulled in a bit down from where we were waiting. I quickly headed that way and was met by Eliana and Casper part way there. I looked up to see Keith waiting beside the vehicle with a huge smile on his face. All was suddenly right in my world!

I took the day off yesterday, then started the task of sorting through pictures this morning. I start with the children who are matched so that families don't have to wait too long to see updated pictures! Over the next few days I will spend hours editing, organizing, and uploading photos!

I'm so thankful that jet lag has not been too bad either going to China or coming home. I am a little tired, but I've been sleeping well at night and felt pretty good during the day.

We are settling in and gearing up to finish up the school year. Both Casper and Annika are finished with several subjects, so our school days are already getting lighter.



In other important family news Eliana just learned to ride her bike and Annika just lost another tooth. They just won't stop growing up!

Leaving China... For Now

I wrote a post about leaving China over on the Superkids Charity blog. You can read it here.

Now I'm going to pack and get ready to head home. Soon, soon I'll be with my sweet family again!

Meanwhile On The Home Front

Here are a few things that we both loved and didn't love on our Florida vacation.



Loved - Sarasota beaches.  The sun was warm, the sand was powdery and soft, and the water was aqua-colored and warm. The children rode the waves on the surf board for hours. We strolled on the beach and they found all kinds of pretty shells that they want to give to Erin when she gets back.



Didn't love - getting horribly sunburned. Casper got it the worst. We simply weren't careful enough in applying the sun block spray. When it got windy the powdery sand blow everywhere. We had grit in our eyes and teeth. And the pretty sea shells smell pretty awful. I guess whatever was living in the shells died.

Then we went to Key Largo where we had rented a boat to stay in as it is tied up in the marina. 



Loved - the boat! The children think the boat is so fun to play on. There are all kinds of nooks and crannies to explore. They climb up to the top of the boat and sit in the captains chair piloting it on the high seas. Eliana declares herself to be Captain Eliana. Even as I type this, the three youngest are talking, laughing, and playing games.  Freeland and Douglas are listening to the guitar player who is singing in the open air dock restaurant just down from us. 


Didn't love - the boat!  It had problems.  It was supposed to be a luxury yacht "boatel" but it turned out to be an aging vessel with mechanical issues and a very dirty interior.  There was no way I was using that tiny dark kitchen. No sooner did we arrive than a receptacle sparked and the breaker flipped. The boat owner came to fix it while we went out to the nearby state park to swim. We quickly got chased out if the water by jelly fish. Since he still wasn't done, we went to Papa Johns for pizza. It still wasn't fixed after that so we wandered the dark docks and looked at boats.  There had been a diesel spill on the boat and the smell is so overpowering that it hits you just walking past the door. An hour into the night I gave it up and closed off the room where the spill had been, and went outside to sleep on the outside deck. That didn't work so I stretched out on the floor inside where I passed a restless night. The boat a/c wasn't working well either so it was very hot, and the bedding smelled bad. Freeland says that his pillow case smelled like pee.




While swimming at the park, we got swarmed and stung by little jelly fish. They were clear and half the size of ping pong balls making them impossible to see from above the water. Eliana was crying and scratching herself as she sat on the beach towel beside me, watching the others  swimming. Occasionally she mournfully stated that "they are all enjoying themselves so much". They weren't, but it seemed that way to her, the poor dear! 

The guy who owns the boat was very friendly. After fixing the electrical problem, he ended up sitting on the dock chatting with us until 10:30 or so. He's a single man, was raised in Rochester New York, moved to Key Largo for warmer weather, has cliff jumped into water, has dived into water from 60 feet high on a boat's rigging while under sail, has sailed to Cuba, and off-roaded by himself in Death Valley. He's had an eventful life!

Then on Friday we went to Key West.  We drove for two hours each way from Key Largo on a narrow strip of land with water on either side in many places as far as the eye could see.  It is the southern-most point in the U.S., only 90 miles from Cuba.

So we are having an adventure, and while I wouldn't do it again, it's made for an interesting time. And the children are experiencing an array of new things. If they are not loving every minute of it, at least they are thoroughly enjoying themselves over all.

We have enjoyed video-chatting with Erin regularly. We are on a count down now! And when she finally steps off that plane on Sunday, everything will be right with the world once again! Under the peeling skin, she will find the same people that she left 15 days before. 

Happy Birthday, Annika!

Dear Annika,

I've never been away from you on your birthday before. Even though you weren't legally our daughter yet on your first birthday we visited you in the orphanage and gave you a birthday gift. And now you are eight! How did that happen!?

I know Daddy will make today extra special for you. I'm sure you will have ice cream and celebrate big! I want you to know how much I love you and how thankful I am that you are my daughter. I'm blowing lots of kisses your way and hope you feel them as they float by on the breeze.

Happy birthday, sweetheart! I am loving you and celebrating you from 8,000 miles away!

All my love,
Mommy

PingXiang, Jiangxi

What a week it has been! We are once more in a familiar area here in the Jiangxi province. We are in a small city with a population of 1,874,000. Our travel has gone well and I am doing well physically. It is always hard for me to travel so much and to be so busy, and I'll admit that I do feel like I'm slowing everyone down at times, but I really have felt well.





I know that you all really want to see the pictures, so I'm going to give you a bunch. Some of these were taken by Keith Wrage, who is brave enough to stick his camera (and sometimes his head) out of the bus window, unlike me.

This girl wanted to take selfies with several of us.



We really didn't run over anyone!

Our train coming in to the station.
I know so many of you are praying for me and for our team. Thank you so much!

It Happens Every Time

I do it every time. I plan for the trip to China. I think about everything I need. I prepare myself for the physical and emotional exhaustion that comes and I think I know what to expect and that I have a handle on things.




And then I get here. A a thousand little moments are packed in to every single day. Love. Heartbreak. Joy. Tears. Laughter. Over and over and over. All day, every day. And it is amazing. It is hard and exhausting and emotionally draining. But it is good.




Today we delivered packages to children who have families.


We snuggled babies and played with older kids.



We cuddled a little boy who wasn't doing very well physically. We also were able to advocate for better care for him. I wish I could tell you what all the medical team did for children today. I'll have to see if one of them will write a post for the Superkids blog about the different ways they help children. It is so much more than just assessing them. There is caregiver training and some ingenious, spur of the moment resourcefulness that improves the quality of life for so many children.

Tomorrow we travel to another orphanage to see more children and do it all over again.


Reflections

I am sitting in a hotel room in Shanghai, China. My mind travels back to the first time I was here, that time with Keith, and that time to add a little daughter to our family. What an amazing experience that was. We did not experience China the way I get to on Superkids trips because we were on our own a lot more and our focus was on our new little daughter and what she needed.

This is now my fourth time to be in Shanghai. Certain things are becoming more familiar. Things that made me nervous the first time I traveled with Superkids are now just par for the course. I remember fearing how I would respond to seeing the children. I was so fearful that I would be too emotional or not be able to connect with them Now I know that, on hard days, I can hold it together until I get back to the hotel. I know that it is almost always possible to connect with every child if you are just tuned in to them.

There are certain children that I have seen every time I have been to Shanghai Children's Home. Of course, it makes me sad to see them there year after year. But I'm also very excited to see them again! And one little boy whom we have seen every year now has a family doing the paperwork to bring him home! Hoe wonderful is that!?

I need to run down for breakfast now. Pray for me as you think about it!