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Back to Blogging?

Here is the thing. I like to write. I always have. It feels easier to convey thoughts through writing. And I have so many thoughts. I may be drowning in thoughts right now. So, I'm going to try blogging again. I miss it. I used to blog several times a week plus almost daily for Superkids. Not writing at all doesn't feel right. I may drop it again, I may blog forever. It all remains to be seen.

I guess a little update is in order. Kind of like the Christmas letter, to get everyone caught up on the Martin crew.

We are now 20 months into owning Ebenezer Groceries (I guess business ownership is like a new baby, you count months for the first 2 years) it has been a huge growing experience for us, but it's going well and we are happy to be doing what we are doing. We have built a management team we love, which makes a huge difference in how busy we are on any given day.




Now for the kid updates. Everyone is healthy and doing well if you want to skip the mom brag that is coming.

Douglas & Kayla have been married since the end of July. They are super busy with both of them being in their final semester of nursing school. We are so proud of their dedication and hard work! Not only are they in school, but they both are working. And... (drumroll please!!) they are expecting their first baby in about 4 weeks! Meaning we are going to be PaPa and Nan-Naw Just expect this blog to be over-run with grand baby pictures in about a month.



Freeland is 19 and lives in an apartment in Schaefferstown. He is working with a landscaping crew. I am so happy to see him able to be more active again after his back problems and eventual surgery a year ago. He works out and has worked hard to get his core strength built back up after that set-back. He has always been our active outdoorsman, so it does my heart good to see him back at it.



Casper is 16 and is a junior in high school. He is a sweet kid who loves his dogs and cares for them tirelessly. School work has always come pretty easily for him. He is hoping to go to flight school to become a commercial pilot after he graduates.

Annika is turning 14 next week. She is finishing 8th grade online at home. I enjoy the extra one on one time I have with her while the other kids are at school. She got an early birthday gift this year. His name is Olaf and he is a chinchilla rabbit. We got him from the local animal shelter and he is 5 years old. He is so soft and already pretty snuggly considering that she has only had him for 2 days.




Eliana doesn't love when I call her the baby of the family, but my baby she is and will always be. She is 12 and in 5th grade. She is back to going to school full time and I miss her so much on the days she used to spend at home! She had a hybrid schedule until fairly recently, so we got a bit spoiled. She is still my little cuddle bug most of the time, though she occasionally reminds me that she is 12 and has more important things to do than watching cooking shows with me.




And Keith and I are, let's say mid-40's. He is the one who does most of the buying and numbers stuff for the store while I do the marketing. We make a pretty good team, if I do say so myself. 

And I can't close without telling you about the dogs. 

Bubba is our adorable, spoiled little cockapoo. He has his favorite place on the sofa and whines if someone dares to sit there or put something there. He loves snuggle times and will go part way back the hall then whine for me to come back to snuggle with him and rub his belly on the bed. He recently went to obedience school and is a very good little boy even if he does pout a little at times when he has to do something he doesn't want to.




Thor is our big, goofy Rottweiler. He is absolutely the sweetest, most laid back dog. He loves to be snuggled too and will often push his way in when we are giving Bubba attention. He has a big, mean sounding bark, but would pretty much welcome anyone in and serve tea if he could. He also went to obedience school and is such an obedient good boy. 




So that is about it. The update. And bless you if you made it this far. Anyone who followed my blog in the past knows this is not my normal style. I just had to have a base-line to work off of. 

I'm excited to be back!! <3

P.S. Photos of Casper and Annika coming soon. 

Sometimes It Is Not All Smooth And Pretty

I like to write a pretty story of sunshiny afternoons and sweet smelling daughters who dance gracefully through each day.  I like to write of precious family times and post beautiful pictures of our beautiful life.  Because we do have a beautiful life! 

But sometimes it just isn't. 

Sometimes the septic system gets clogged thanks to a pencil being dropped down a pipe and um, you know, um water gets all over the laundry room floor.  Where there are piles of sorted laundry that should have gotten washed that day but didn't. 

Sometimes, maybe even like the very next morning, the youngest daughter stuffs all of the toilet paper left on the roll in to the toilet.  And once more the water flows.  This time it is upstairs.  And you feel like there is nasty water everywhere and you are doomed to never feeling clean again!

Sometimes that was the last roll of toilet paper in the house.

Sometimes people say things that unwittingly make us feel awkward.  And then we have to decide what to do with it.  Which makes us feel more awkward.

Sometimes little girls run around with messy hair all day long.  And have to be reminded not to sniff about 362 times per day.

Sometimes the mother (you know, that pillar of strength in the home) crashes and burns with really terrible back issues.  Sometimes she barely gets up all week.  And the children need to do everything.  And it is not a complete disaster because they have needed to do this before.  Which makes the mother feel guilty and proud of them all at the same time.

Which brings us right back to the beautiful.  Because we are still here.  We are still together. 

God is still good.

Our Weekend

We had very special guests here over the weekend.  My parents came from Texas to visit us and, while the time was short, we did pack a lot of fun and very, very special moments into the two days they were at our house.

Eliana and Grandpa Sams


On Friday evening we went to my sister's for a hot dog roast.  My sister's family raises flowers to sell at their market and one of my nieces loves to dry different kinds of flowers and makes gorgeous bouquets out of them.  She has a little area in their barn loft that she calls her "Wildflower Workshop".



On Saturday we went to the benefit auction for the Clinic for Special Children.  We always love going to this auction.  They sell all kinds of things, but the main attractions, at least for me, are the food and the quilts.  Good food and beautiful quilts for a good cause?  I'm all in!


Chopping pork for the bar-b-que sandwiches




Mariner's Compass quilt, one of my favorites!
And then on Sunday Douglas was baptized.  He decided to become a Christian several weeks ago and it has been such a precious, meaningful time for our family.  It was very special that all of his living grandparents could be present at the service.




I'll Love You For Now

For the past three weeks we have had an "extra" daughter.  We have entered the realm of "respite care providers", a position I never really saw myself in because, you know, it is too hard!  Well, God seems to just smile when I decide something is too hard, because it seems like something generally comes along that fits neatly into that category.

Our new "daughter" is 14.  She was adopted from China almost a year ago.  She is sweet and funny and quite helpful.  She is also {understandably} a little confused about everything that is happening and has happened.

We don't know how long she will be here.  We don't know how everything will turn out for her.  We don't know how she will process everything and move forward from this point.  But we do believe in the healing power of love.  She is ours to love and protect for today.  Each morning I tell myself, "Today I have her here.  Today I will love her as if there is no tomorrow." 

I don't know how many of you remember this post where I said, 

"My desire is to go wherever I need to go.  And do whatever I need to do.  And love every child of any age that I can love, whether for a day or for a lifetime."   I meant it.  I still mean it. 

I don't know if this is for a few weeks or for a lifetime, but I do know I'll love you for now!


Monday- Our New Saturday



We are trying a new schedule here in the Martin house.  Monday is our new "day off."  Who knows, we may not like it, but we are giving it a try.  So our school week runs from Tuesday to Saturday, Sunday is generally busy with church related activities or visiting friends.  Then comes Monday.  We sleep late (just kidding, no such thing around here), relax (Okay, do laundry), get everything in order to begin a new school week on Tuesday (again, not true, it is 4:30 and 'order' is not the word that comes to mind first when I look around) anyway, you get the idea. Maybe it is just this mama's attempt at avoiding the least inspiring day of the week!






In honor of our new freedom on Mondays we went swimming this morning.  We don't take our children to public swimming pools because of the general lack of modesty, so we went to a private pool that we can reserve fairly inexpensively and they spent the morning splashing and enjoying the water slide.  I think everyone enjoyed this Monday pretty much!





Maybe, just maybe, avoiding Mondays will be a success! Happy Monday, everyone!

Brought to You by the Letter 'B'

B-b-b back to school! We started yesterday.   Eliana is starting kindergarten, Annika is in 1st grade, Casper in 4th, Freeland in 6th, and Douglas in 9th.  We also have 2 extra girls living with us for a little while.  They are both 14 and both still learning English having come to the US from China less than a year ago.  Our little classroom is full to overflowing and the teacher/mama is pretty well shot by the end of the day!  But we have had good days and look forward to the year!

B-b-b bumps in the night.  You know how I said this mama has been a little tired by the end of the day?  Well, after a certain 5 year old crawled into bed beside me for the third time last night I gave up on putting her back in her bed and turned over and went back to sleep.  Around 4:30ish there was a loud bump as said 5 year old fell off of our rather high bed.  Thankfully, I am an awesome housekeeper and there was NOT a laundry basket full of unfolded clothes setting beside the bed.  That could have really hurt her, you know, if she had hit a laundry basket! Ahem, anyway... She cried quite a lot but I just hauled her back up and groggily told her to be quiet and go back to sleep, which she did fairly quickly.



Imagine my surprise when I woke up this morning and realized said 5 year old had a B-b-b busted lip!  It is all bloody and swollen and looks terrible.  I just might win the Worst Mom of the Year Award over that one!  I told my baby to be quiet and go back to sleep when she was battered and bleeding!

So... what are your most stellar parenting moments this week?!

Mainly Maine


We spent last week in Maine.  It is a special place to us.  We have been there several times, the most notable of which was our honeymoon!  It seemed fitting to return for our 15th anniversary, this time with five children in tow!  :)

An un-edited photo of a sunset.

 It was a lovely location!  The children had so much fun canoeing and kayaking on the lake.  I also went out in the canoe once.  It rained.  Hard.  And it was chilly.  The next time I decided to go, the words were barely out of my mouth when it started sprinkling then turned to a steady drizzle.  I gave up at that point.  No boating for me.





They also spent a lot of time fishing.  It was like a dream come true for Freeland especially.  How that boy loves to fish and boat!  He was in his element!




We spent lots of time reading and relaxing and trying to balance the comfort of a hot cup of coffee against the discomfort of the outhouse!  We also spent lots of time cooking, or trying to cook, over a fire.  Sometimes we were successful, sometimes not so much, but thankfully this mama had taken plenty of supplies for s'mores, so we always had something to eat!




I don't think I would ever tire of the wild call of the loon on the lake!  I wish you could see the loons better, but you can certainly hear her call of distress as Keith and Douglas got too close to her chick!

MVI 3352 from Erin on Vimeo.


And now we are home again.  I spent my morning trying to finalize curriculum choices for this coming school year.  Because, folks, it is almost August and it would be a good idea to have school materials here before too long, you know?

Happy Birthday, El-l-lia-ana...

Happy birthday to you!


 

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I Want More { A Letter to my Sons }

Today I have the privilege of guest posting over at Don't Let Life Pass You By, a fellow adoptive mom's blog.

Head on over here to read about {some of } my desires for my sons.

 

Summer Days & Sweet Companions

Hot summer days...



Blue skies...



Country roads...



Golden sunlight filtering through the trees...



And sweet companions on an evening stroll...



How blessed am I that I need go no further than HOME to enjoy all of these things?