Finishing Our School Year

We have worked hard this school year. We have finished most of our books. The achievement tests have been taken. I have watched as they have grown in so many ways! And now we are almost finished for the year.



Homeschooling is not an easy thing to do. It takes a lot of time and effort. It means that I worry and second-guess myself all of the time (2 AM thoughts- what if I'm ruining them for life!?). But it is also rewarding. I have watched Annika go from being a hesitant reader to being a confident, independent reader of chapter books. I have watched Douglas go from "unable to figure out" some of his calculus problems to working much more difficult ones with comparative ease. Casper has learned to diagram long, difficult sentences. Freeland has increased his mathematical abilities and is ready for Algebra next year. And Eliana? Well, let's just say I no longer worry that school will be difficult for her and I'm really excited about starting first grade work with her next year.




We are looking forward to a break. And I think we may be joining a Classical Conversations homeschool group next year, so we are changing it up a bit to give everyone a little different opportunity.



This week there is a huge homeschool convention in Harrisburg. We have attended the last 3 years. It is a fun place for the children to go. It is such an inspiring community to be a part of!

So here is to a restful summer and a great school year to come!
  

They Changed Me

You cannot look into their eyes, hold them in your arms, enter in to their world without being changed. You cannot enter in to their stories and then walk away and forget. You just can't. And I really don't want to.



I think of the older boy who said he "couldn't" smile when Gongzhan asked him to. With some time and the help of a bouncing ball he was smiling by the time he left. I think of another boy who loves to draw and drew himself with great attention given to detail. They changed me.



I think of cradling a baby boy who isn't doing well. He does not tolerate his milk for some reason and he is very malnourished. (Yes, we are working on helping him!) You cannot hold a baby in a desperate situation and not be changed by it.


I think of watching Andy's face light up as he learned that he has a family. He has waited so long and has been through so much! And the light in his eyes changed me.



I think of the little boy with the walker and the huge smile singing his heart out for us. He needs a family. He needs someone who will treasure his song and help him know he has no limits. Watching his little face changed me.



I sit here in the comfort of my home. I am so glad to be here, with my children, present in their lives. But my heart is in China too. And I wouldn't change that. They changed my heart, again. They always do. I wouldn't have it any other way.

I'm Home



I had a very uneventful trip home. It was a very full flight, but the seat beside me was empty. It made such a huge difference to be able utilize that space a bit! The flight was 13 hours long, but it seemed to go by quickly thanks to a couple of good books, a movie, and a little nap.

In the Beijing airport



The family was there waiting for me when I arrived. Douglas and Freeland met me inside and I was glad to hand my luggage over to them as soon as I saw them! We headed out and were waiting for Keith and the three youngest to pull up when I was suddenly almost bowled over by Annika. They had pulled in a bit down from where we were waiting. I quickly headed that way and was met by Eliana and Casper part way there. I looked up to see Keith waiting beside the vehicle with a huge smile on his face. All was suddenly right in my world!

I took the day off yesterday, then started the task of sorting through pictures this morning. I start with the children who are matched so that families don't have to wait too long to see updated pictures! Over the next few days I will spend hours editing, organizing, and uploading photos!

I'm so thankful that jet lag has not been too bad either going to China or coming home. I am a little tired, but I've been sleeping well at night and felt pretty good during the day.

We are settling in and gearing up to finish up the school year. Both Casper and Annika are finished with several subjects, so our school days are already getting lighter.



In other important family news Eliana just learned to ride her bike and Annika just lost another tooth. They just won't stop growing up!

Leaving China... For Now

I wrote a post about leaving China over on the Superkids Charity blog. You can read it here.

Now I'm going to pack and get ready to head home. Soon, soon I'll be with my sweet family again!

Meanwhile On The Home Front

Here are a few things that we both loved and didn't love on our Florida vacation.



Loved - Sarasota beaches.  The sun was warm, the sand was powdery and soft, and the water was aqua-colored and warm. The children rode the waves on the surf board for hours. We strolled on the beach and they found all kinds of pretty shells that they want to give to Erin when she gets back.



Didn't love - getting horribly sunburned. Casper got it the worst. We simply weren't careful enough in applying the sun block spray. When it got windy the powdery sand blow everywhere. We had grit in our eyes and teeth. And the pretty sea shells smell pretty awful. I guess whatever was living in the shells died.

Then we went to Key Largo where we had rented a boat to stay in as it is tied up in the marina. 



Loved - the boat! The children think the boat is so fun to play on. There are all kinds of nooks and crannies to explore. They climb up to the top of the boat and sit in the captains chair piloting it on the high seas. Eliana declares herself to be Captain Eliana. Even as I type this, the three youngest are talking, laughing, and playing games.  Freeland and Douglas are listening to the guitar player who is singing in the open air dock restaurant just down from us. 


Didn't love - the boat!  It had problems.  It was supposed to be a luxury yacht "boatel" but it turned out to be an aging vessel with mechanical issues and a very dirty interior.  There was no way I was using that tiny dark kitchen. No sooner did we arrive than a receptacle sparked and the breaker flipped. The boat owner came to fix it while we went out to the nearby state park to swim. We quickly got chased out if the water by jelly fish. Since he still wasn't done, we went to Papa Johns for pizza. It still wasn't fixed after that so we wandered the dark docks and looked at boats.  There had been a diesel spill on the boat and the smell is so overpowering that it hits you just walking past the door. An hour into the night I gave it up and closed off the room where the spill had been, and went outside to sleep on the outside deck. That didn't work so I stretched out on the floor inside where I passed a restless night. The boat a/c wasn't working well either so it was very hot, and the bedding smelled bad. Freeland says that his pillow case smelled like pee.




While swimming at the park, we got swarmed and stung by little jelly fish. They were clear and half the size of ping pong balls making them impossible to see from above the water. Eliana was crying and scratching herself as she sat on the beach towel beside me, watching the others  swimming. Occasionally she mournfully stated that "they are all enjoying themselves so much". They weren't, but it seemed that way to her, the poor dear! 

The guy who owns the boat was very friendly. After fixing the electrical problem, he ended up sitting on the dock chatting with us until 10:30 or so. He's a single man, was raised in Rochester New York, moved to Key Largo for warmer weather, has cliff jumped into water, has dived into water from 60 feet high on a boat's rigging while under sail, has sailed to Cuba, and off-roaded by himself in Death Valley. He's had an eventful life!

Then on Friday we went to Key West.  We drove for two hours each way from Key Largo on a narrow strip of land with water on either side in many places as far as the eye could see.  It is the southern-most point in the U.S., only 90 miles from Cuba.

So we are having an adventure, and while I wouldn't do it again, it's made for an interesting time. And the children are experiencing an array of new things. If they are not loving every minute of it, at least they are thoroughly enjoying themselves over all.

We have enjoyed video-chatting with Erin regularly. We are on a count down now! And when she finally steps off that plane on Sunday, everything will be right with the world once again! Under the peeling skin, she will find the same people that she left 15 days before. 

Happy Birthday, Annika!

Dear Annika,

I've never been away from you on your birthday before. Even though you weren't legally our daughter yet on your first birthday we visited you in the orphanage and gave you a birthday gift. And now you are eight! How did that happen!?

I know Daddy will make today extra special for you. I'm sure you will have ice cream and celebrate big! I want you to know how much I love you and how thankful I am that you are my daughter. I'm blowing lots of kisses your way and hope you feel them as they float by on the breeze.

Happy birthday, sweetheart! I am loving you and celebrating you from 8,000 miles away!

All my love,
Mommy

PingXiang, Jiangxi

What a week it has been! We are once more in a familiar area here in the Jiangxi province. We are in a small city with a population of 1,874,000. Our travel has gone well and I am doing well physically. It is always hard for me to travel so much and to be so busy, and I'll admit that I do feel like I'm slowing everyone down at times, but I really have felt well.





I know that you all really want to see the pictures, so I'm going to give you a bunch. Some of these were taken by Keith Wrage, who is brave enough to stick his camera (and sometimes his head) out of the bus window, unlike me.

This girl wanted to take selfies with several of us.



We really didn't run over anyone!

Our train coming in to the station.
I know so many of you are praying for me and for our team. Thank you so much!